I guess I will begin this first blog by explaining what I am doing in Bangladesh. But your first question might be, where is Bangladesh anyways? As you can see below it is a small country in Asia, which shares most of its border with India, and the rest with Myanmar (Burma). After WWII this part of the world was divided into India and East and West Pakistan. So until its liberation in 1971 Bangladesh was known as East Pakistan. It is the 4th most densely populated country in the world (after Monaco, Singapore and Malta). The language spoken here is Bangla and the people are primarily Muslim (approx. 83%), followed by Hindu (16%) and then Christian and Buddhist (1% for both). There are over 30 rivers in Bangladesh and about 70% of the land is covered in water during the wet (monsoon) season. It is also a site for cyclones. A serious one hits the country about every three years, causing numerous deaths and displacement. In many ways, it resembles what we associate with Indian culture, however, Bangladesh is far less touristic. In fact, I have seen just a handful of foreigners since my arrival (more on that later).

Now onto what I am doing here. I am doing a fellowship with McGill's Institute for Health and Social Policy. I will be preparing a case study broadly on civic participation and equity, and specifically on how one NGO (non-governmental organization) has supported local poor landless populations to mobilize and demand their rights. The NGO I am working with is
Nijera Kori (which in English means "we do it ourselves"). They are unique in Bangladesh, but also globally, for their focus on liberation education or conscientization, meaning they believe that marginalized peoples' learning about their oppression is the most important part of "development" and is the key to equitable social change.

I had my first "cultural" experience on the last leg of my flight here, from Bahrain to Dhaka. I had been waiting in the Bahrain airport for a couple of hours and it was time to head over to my departure gate. I arrived at the gate to find a sea of Bangladeshi men. In fact, I could not see a single woman, nor a single foreigner. This is definitely the first time this has ever happened to me on a flight. I wish I had a picture to show you, but the last thing I wanted to do was to draw more attention to myself at that point. Many Bangladeshi men work overseas, in the Middle East, in other parts of Asia and also in Europe and N. America. In fact, one of Bangladesh's primary sources of revenue is foreign worker remittances. Most of the men on my flight were returning to Bangladesh on holidays or extended visits.
Anyways, I joined the lineup to check-in, and of course everyone is staring at me, this is normal. But it was so openly and obviously (mouths open, eyes focused, fixed concentration on me) that I had to smile. My Lonely Planet guidebook says that visiting Bangladesh is the closest we'll come to achieving celebrity status. I believe it! The man in front of me was very nice and asked me where I am from, what I am doing in Bangladesh etc. In fact, I'm not sure I would have survived the next 1/2 hour without him. Once we had checked in, we joined the rest of the crowd in a small enclosed area waiting to load onto a shuttle bus to the plane. The first shuttle bus arrived and the sea gathered momentum and began to swell and charge towards the bus. The nice man held out his arm to keep me from being trampled. We waited for the next bus, which was a little less crowded. On the bus, everyone was quite concerned about my well-being, making sure I had space for my bag and a pole to hold on to.
I got onto the plane to find someone sitting in my seat, 22F. He showed me his ticket, which read 32F so I directed him to the right place. Then another man came along and showed me his ticket, so I directed him too. And then another showed me his and I realized that many of my fellow travelers couldn't read their tickets. Eventually a flight attendant came to assist me and I took my seat. Shortly thereafter a man came down and sat next to me. He was visibly uncomfortable with being seated so close. A friend of his joined us, and he was much less uncomfortable. In fact his second sentence was to ask for my phone number ;)
The flight attendant came by and asked me if I wanted anything to drink. I hesitated, because I was the only one asked about a beverage, but I said some water would be fine. He came back with the water then left. A few minutes later he returned and told me he had another seat for me. So I followed him and he took me to a pair of empty seats in 1st class! Unbelievable. I know it was totally unfair and I felt bad about the special treatment I was given. But I accepted and tried to enjoy the spacious, quiet comfort of my new seat. Perhaps the right thing to do was to insist that I keep my assigned seat...what would you have done after having already traveled 24 hours without sleep?
One of the cheapest (and most beautiful) types of local transportation, the rickshaw.
Anyways, I arrived in Dhaka at 5am last Wednesday morning. Several people had warned me about the airport scene but it was FAR less chaotic than the airport in Mali! The luggage came out rather smoothly and I had the space to gather my things and gradually make my way to the exit. Finding the driver who was picking me up was a little more challenging but I managed.
The view from my bedroom window
I am staying with a women who is in her 70s. She is the mom of a guy here named Tawfiq, who is the friend of a colleague of mine at McGill (hope that makes sense...). She doesn't speak English, so our dinner conversation has been pretty slim so far. But I am gradually picking up some Bangla words here and there and making an attempt to communicate. English has also seeped into the local language here so she knows a little of my vocabulary too. We also live with a girl hired to clean and cook etc., Morshedaa (she is in the picture further below). She's very sweet and laughs at me a lot.
View of the park from my window
The apartment we share is huge, and probably the nicest place I've ever lived in, in my life! It is in a rich neighbourhood, which is also the diplomatic area. I had no idea when I made arrangements to stay here that this is where I would be living. It has its advantages. It is less noisy than other areas, there is a beautiful park right next door with a walking path, I have a fan and tv...but I have to be honest, I don't feel totally comfortable there.
My bedroom
I find it difficult to deal with the privilege I have as a White, "Western" woman on a daily basis (both in Canada and abroad) and I find that living a privileged lifestyle only magnifies these feelings. I would prefer to stay in a more modest home, with a less wealthy family, but it is difficult to find this as a foreigner here. So I am making the best of where I am now and trying to get around out of my neighbourhood and meet other people as often as possible. Already, I have met some people at Nijera Kori who I think will be good friends!

I have had a few excursions since my arrival, but the highlight was yesterday's trip to the market (it's name is actually new market). It was a bustle of people, shops and vendors, foods and smells! A colleague from Nijera Kori, Rajib, took me. It is rather difficult to get around on my own at this point, without
Morshedaa collecting dried chilisknowing the language or the city. Plus, as a woman, it is always a good idea to be cautious. But I will be able to move around more independently once I learn more Bangla and know where things are. These things take time and I am being patient, even though I would love to just take off exploring on my own!
I will leave it there for now. My experience here as been great so far! Bangladeshis are EXTREMELY kind and genuinely hospitable. They are taking very good care of me. The climate is hot and humid but not unbearable. And the food is delicious! I'll send another update soon. Please send your comments!
Erin
The market